Tuesday, April 18, 2023

The Graduate

 Repost from my Spydersmom blog.

Lyra completed the 7-week AKC Star Puppy Class at Teamworks Dog Training, and passed the final exam with flying colors. So proud of our little graduate!

Next up, Puppy Confidence and Agility Classes and then on to the Canine Good Citizen!

Monday, February 20, 2023

Stay...

 If only they could. 

As Frylie's health continued to deteriorate, we made the impossibly difficult decision to help him cross the Rainbow Bridge with the compassionate assistance of Lap of Love. He passed away peacefully at 2:25 p.m. on Sunday afternoon, February 12, 2023, surrounded by his family at home.

We spent his final days taking leisurely strolls along some of his favorite trails and spending time outside in the late winter sunshine, reminding him of how loved and cherished he is and always will be.



For his final meals, Fry was treated to hamburger steak with cheese, scrambled eggs and bacon, and yummy desserts of chocolate peanut butter cups. We stroked his soft fur and told him how much we loved him as he peacefully crossed the Rainbow Bridge, surrounded by Steve, myself, Lyra and Venus. Then, with our hearts breaking and tears flowing like unstoppable rivers, we allowed Lyra to touch him one last time. Watching her gently sniff his face and then softly kiss his nose broke my heart into a million pieces. 

We adore you, dearest boy. You are a treasure and life is so much better because of your presence in it. Your pawprints are furever on our hearts, and we love you now and always throughout eternity and beyond. May you forever run free across the Rainbow Bridge with Zoe, Spyder, Missee and Gillis until one day when we all meet again.



Sunday, January 29, 2023

A Long Strange Week

Repost from my Spydersmom blog.

This month has felt like a rollercoaster ride where the seatbelts are broken. Frylie's cancer has progressed and although he has had some improvement in his symptoms with steroids, his overall trajectory is leading us toward making difficult end of life decisions in the not too distant future. He's still eating and drinking, and seems to enjoy his easy daily walks, but we know our time with him is finite and it breaks our hearts into pieces.

Knowing from experience that life without a dog is not an option for us and with Fry's increasing age and cancer progression, we began looking at adding another member to our family to ease the transition, and found an English Labrador puppy who checked all the boxes for what we wanted. In discussion with the breeder on January 18, she was kindly willing to keep the puppy for us until we all felt Frylie's situation was appropriate for bringing her home. I know it seems morbid to add another dog while Fry's still with us, but I truly believe he would want us to not be alone when his time comes.

As Frylie continued to have more good days than bad, we elected to pick up the puppy, whom we had decided to name Lyra after the constellation, on Saturday, January 28. We took Fry with us, and on arrival at the breeder's home, he and Lyra met and instantly bonded which was a lovely surprise. They played together gently in the yard, and were both very comfortable in the car together on the drive home.

Once home, the two immediately became inseparable and I think Fry has enjoyed showing Lyra the ropes and being the wonderful older brother to her. And Lyra has taken to Fry as her mentor and new best friend. Even our crochety deaf senior cat, Venus, seems content with the new family situation.